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Are you using Power or Force?

December 15, 2021 Affective Leadership, Emotional Intelligence  One comment

Every picture we create in our minds has a magnetic power. These “Attractive Powers” have been measured and quantified through the use of behavioral kinesiology as described in books including Power Vs. Force by Dr. David Hawkins M.D., Ph.D.  Power is universal and energizing, while the use of Force always creates its own resistance and is a negative drain on ourselves, our organizations and the world as a whole...

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Make More Mistakes

December 15, 2021 Affective Leadership, Emotional Intelligence, Spirit at Work  No comments

Make more mistakes

We all want to be around people who make us feel good about ourselves.  Even when they are critical of our performance they always appreciate the performer.  When we judge someone else we lump the doer and the deed together.   We do this to others because we do it to ourselves, and it is a HUGE MISTAKE.  You are not your actions; you are that which acts and you act based on your best level of awareness at that time...

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Expectations Shape Realizations

December 15, 2021 Affective Leadership, Emotional Intelligence

we attract our expectations

I woke up early this morning thinking about a comment made after an all-day program yesterday.  She said, “He knows how I am“.

When I think about how I responded to events in my life even just a few years ago, I realize the things I used to believe about myself were not true.  It also follows logically then that what I believe about myself right now is not true as well...

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Why “Change the Buzz” Bees?

December 15, 2021 Affective Leadership, Association Insights, Emotional Intelligence, Peer Powered Performance

Why Bees

Because “Bee-ing” is the single most important, and least understood step in any change involving complex social interactions.  Consider these statistics as evidence of our misconceptions about change.

  1. 95% of those who lose weight on a diet regain it.

  2. 25% of people abandon New Year’s resolutions within one week and 60% do so within six months.

  3. The average person makes the same resolution 10 times without success.

  4. 70% of organizational change initiatives ultimately fail.

These exam...

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Suffering is Surmountable: 25 Steps to Conquering Complacency

December 15, 2021 Affective Leadership, Emotional Intelligence, Peer Powered Performance, Positive Deviance  No comments

United_States_Declaration_of_Independence

“…All experience hath shewn, that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable,
than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed.”

It is often easy to complain that the present pace and complexity of change is often overwhelming but this quote taken from the first line of the indictment section of the Declaration of Independence reveals how easily we can be lulled into a sense of helplessness...

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